Somatic Sex Education can bring clarity and healing to a part of life that can often feel confusing, overwhelming or painful and support you to become empowered in the realm of sexuality and beyond.

As Somatic Sex Educators we are trauma- informed practitioners who can assist you to tap into the innate wisdom of your body, change habits that no longer serve, clarify desires, strengthen boundaries, empower enthusiastic consent and help you to dismantle shame.

We teach through body experiences designed to nurture, deepen or awaken the sensual self. These experiences can include coaching in breath, movement, body awareness, boundary-setting, communication, the anatomy of arousal, massage, erotic trance and other body-based teaching about sex. Uniquely we are also trained to give genital and anal touch for education, healing and pleasure.

‘We touch in ways that assist people in developing presence within the body, opening interior awareness, and learning how the body can feel more and more alive.’ Caffyn Jesse

Have you ever asked yourself:

• ‘Why do I sometimes space out during sex?’
• ‘Why am I afraid of asking for what I want during sex?’
• ‘My genitals look different than the ones in magazines/porn, are they normal?’
• ‘Why do I feel numb in parts of my body when I am touched?’
• ‘How can I feel more empowered in my sexuality?’
• ‘Sometimes I put up with things in sex that are not pleasurable – how can I say no? I fear that I hurt my partner’
• ‘I find it difficult to orgasm, is this normal? I feel like a failure if I take more than five minutes to come’
• ‘I come too quickly and lose my erection, what can I do?’
• ‘When I feel a lot of pleasure and arousal I suddenly feel ashamed and go numb, why is this?’
• ‘I don’t enjoy penis-in-vagina sex, is this normal?’
• ‘Why does it hurt when I have sex?’

Somatic Sex Education is a wonderful way to explore those or any other questions about sex in an environment that is safe, nurturing and empathic.

‘Somatic Sex Education can assist you in expanding the pleasure that is possible. This expansion has physical, emotional, mental and spiritual components.’ Caffyn Jesse

These are some of the areas we can explore together:

• learning about the anatomy of arousal;
• loss or lack of sexual desire and libido;
• learning to feel safe and comfortable in your own skin and body;
• reconnect with sex after childbirth, menopause, prostate surgery or other life events;
• support with chronic pelvic pain, vulvodynia;
• scar tissue remediation- attending to scars, allowing for more sensation;
• creating a better relationship to my genitals/ addressing genital shame and learning more about the anatomy;
• addressing body shame and body image issues;
• mindful masturbation and self pleasure coaching;
• G-spot or prostate exploration;
• experiencing and maintaining erection and pleasure without erection;
• exploring how breath can support arousal;
• learning about boundaries and consent;
• overcoming shame, guilt or fear in the realm of sex;
• becoming orgasmic, or more orgasmic;
• building sexual confidence, agency and empowerment;
• exploring female ejaculation;
• changing habitual sexual roles or scripts;
• healing from sexual abuse or trauma that we hold in our bodies;
• exploring erotic possibilities as a transitioning or transgender person, or someone who wants to play with gender;
• curiosity about conscious kink/ BDSM;
• addressing troublesome turn-ons, including “pornography addiction” or unwanted fantasies;
• learning about or exploring my anus/ anal sex/ prostate massage/exploring the realm of anal pleasure;
• expand habits, nourish connection to my own sexual self and energy;
• learning how to communicate sexual desires, wishes and needs/ finding my voice and agency

Sexological Bodywork might include sessions in:

• Scar Tissue Remediation;
• Pleasure Mapping and Genital Mapping;
• Erotic Massage;
• External/ Rosebud massage and internal anal mapping and massage;
• Genital massage for all genders and yoni healing sessions;
• Erotic Awakening massage (Taoist Massage)

If you would like to find our more about this work or book a free 20 min Skype session, please email me evaweaver@talk21.com or call 07757747027

Read more about Somatic Sex Education here in a lovely article by Caffyn Jesse

‘I found that the Sexological bodywork has been the deepest healing work I have done. The fact that I am the sole focus in the sessions, that I am encouraged to find my voice and what is pleasurable for me and that I can ask for what I need, is extremely powerful. Just being witnessed in my vulnerability feels healing. Through Eva’s loving and honouring touch I have released a lot of shame that I carried in my body due to the experience of abuse. I have been able to heal the traumas stored in my body- a big weight has been lifted and I feel more empowered in my sexuality and other areas of my life. I recommend this work very much.’ Penelope Lawrie

‘Somatic sex education can help people go deeply into the beauty and mystery of sex,
and learn how to access profound ecstatic states. Interacting with love and mindfulness while making deep connection from this core part of the self, we can experience sacred presence in others and ourselves. Happiness, reverence and ecstatic bliss can be consciously chosen and practiced over time.’ Caffyn Jesse