erotic awakening massage
An Erotic Awakening Massage is a pleasurable whole body massage that aims to awaken erotic energy, enliven the body and spirit and support you to feel connected with your sexuality, eroticism and orgasmic potential.
The Erotic Awakening massage builds on the elements of breath, touch and movement. Barbara Carrellas describes it as a ‘unique combination of conscious breathing, sensual massage, specific genital massage strokes (imagine genital reflexology) and energy orgasm techniques.’
Benefits of the Erotic Awakening Massage can include:
- feeling of aliveness;
- deep connection with body/ stronger embodiment, grounding;
- experience of receiving, exploring erotic/ sexual pleasure and arousal in a safe environment;
- erotic empowerment and agency;
- reconnecting with erotic feelings, arousal and pleasure;
- the massage can feel deeply nourishing for body and spirit;
- reconnecting with and expanding your orgasmic potential;
- experience of expanded consciousness and connection with the ecstatic, universe, bliss;
We will set an intention for your massage- this can be for healing, pleasure, clearing, honouring, joy, aliveness, acknowledging yourself as a sexual being or marking a particular transition in your life- or anything else.
Before we begin, we will talk about any boundaries in regards to touch and your body.
We do not often get a chance to direct another’s touch exactly to our needs. In this process, I am in service to, and guided by you: I encourage you to listen deeply to your body, your wishes, desires and subtle impulses. You are in complete choice in every moment- you are invited to guide me very specifically on the quality of the touch, where and how you like to be touched: firmer, lighter, slower etc.
The massage can, but doesn’t have to include genital touch.
An Erotic Awakening Massage can be an intensely powerful, exquisite, magical and erotic experience. Sometimes deep emotions can emerge and be released; you might feel sadness, grief or anger as well as ecstatic joy; you might giggle or cry, laugh out loud or be very still- all feelings are welcome.
Towards the end of the Massage, I offer the Taoist practice of the ‘Big Draw’- taking several breaths, then clenching every muscle before releasing.
The experience in this space of release is different for everybody- it can range from a subtle sense of warmth and tingliness to full body orgasm or anything in between.
After this there will be time for you to savour before we check in and close the session.
The Erotic Awakening massage can be a one-off experience or you can book several sessions to drop deeper into the process.
Session last 2 hours.
I am currently offering this massage as part of my Back to Sex Bodywork programme
Sexological Bodywork programme- how we can work together:
Besides my online or face to face coaching sessions, I am currently offering bodywork sessions for women (trans women warmly welcome), gender queer & gender non conforming folks and trans people in my cabin in Saltdean near Brighton.
These sessions offer an opportunity for empowerment, pleasure, exploration and healing.
As the work can be very deep, I am now offering the bodywork within a strong, supportive container with a minimum of three bodywork session.
The bodywork programme includes:
* one 45 min Discover session- an opportunity to ask me anything and for us to see whether we are a good fit to work together. I will send you a questionnaire prior to the session and we can talk about what you would like to explore in the bodywork session.
- 1st session 2.5 hours – in this intake and first bodywork session we go deeper into what you would like to explore and we make a loose plan/programme for the three session. This session includes one bodywork session – erotic awakening massage, genital and/or pleasure mapping, anal massage, scar tissue remediation etc.
- 2nd session 2 hours- second bodywork session, see above.
- 3rd session 2.5 hours– third bodywork session with time to talk about outcome.
- follow up session 45 min – you can take this session up to a month later- an opportunity for integration. You can bring to the session whatever you like.
- In between session you can have support via whatssapp/Signal or email
- you will have access to learning portal Back to Sex– lots of additional resources: pdfs to down load, signpost to other resources such as books etc.
Total price for this bodywork offer is £1111-
Payments plans are available and the sessions can be stretched over a three months period if wished.
The sessions can also include a session on conscious kink, please enquire.
For questions, please email me:
I look forward to welcoming you!
The Erotic Awakening Massage was developed by Barbara Carrellas, Joseph Kramer and Annie Sprinkle in the 1980s merging the wisdom of Tantra and Taoism with the insights of western sexology.
‘Our sexuality is not only something that can be used for the enhancement of an intimate relationship, for physical pleasure and procreation. It can also be used for personal transformation, physical and emotional healing, self realisation and spiritual growth, and as a way to learn all of life and death.’ Annie Sprinkle about the Erotic Awakening massage